The Final

Tonight is the big strictly finale.
So, so, so, excited about it.

Strictly

How exciting was it.
All three remaining contestants, Tom Chambers, Rachel Stevens and Lisa Snowdon go through to the final. And all of our votes cast will be carried over.
so very, very, very, very exciting.
Padraig Caughey

Mark is staying for xmas

So exciting my partner Mark is coming to stay for xmas.
I must buy him the best xmas pressie ever.

Sergeantgate

I think this whole Sergeantgate affair is very, very, very bad.
We demand that John Sergeant come back. We the fans love John.
Padraig Caughey

Christmas is coming

Christmas is nearly here, it is very exciting.
Belfast lights will be switched on at the new continental market.
work has started, christmas starts next week.

perfume soaps

I collect perfume soaps.
My fave is lilac blossom soap.
One of my old boyfriends introduced me to the pleasure.

Strictly come dancing

Since meeting Larry and learning to dance.
I am a strictly come dancing addict.
Got to have it.

I love John Sergeant, I admire his style. It may be that a lot of people say I look just like him.

He is a real inspiration to us wee fat balding men.
He looks so much like me, I wonder if he is gay as well?
Padraig Caughey

gay bloggers in belfast

I wonder how many gay bloggers there are around me.
There are many behind me, I hope.oh dear I am so naughty.
Padraig Caughey

Meeting Larry and learning to dance

I have met Larry and co and I am now learning to dance.
I am so, so excited.
Padraig Caughey

My encounter with Oscar Wilde

I was feeling so, so, so sorry for myself. I was going through a bout of manic depression. I was drinking heavy and using weed. I did not care about anyone or anything but me.
My encounter with Oscar Wilde was brief, but very, very very life changing.
Padraig Caughey

My encounter with the fairy god mother

Bullied at school, I ended up a manic depressive prone to extreme mood swings.
I was living the bad life, alone in my council flat on the dole, wasting my days in a fantasy world and self love.
Then one day I had a vision, it was my fairy god mother.

She talked to me, Padraig Caughey
, Padraig Caughey, Padraig Caughey, get up you lazy fat little sad git.
Padraig Caughey

Padraig Caughey - me

Height ~ 5' 4"
Weight ~ 14 stones 7 pounds. yes I know I need to lose 3 or 4 stone.
Hair ~ Thinning bald
Interests ~ Internet
Hobby ~ None really
Lovelife ~ Do not talk about it.
Fitness level ~ Do not talk about it.
Desire ~ Interesting life partner to compensate.

Padraig Caughey

Iris Robinson

Iris robinson comments on gays are part of a very,very,very anti gay campaign.
Padraig Caughey

Photos of Sarah Palin and the gay vote

Wondering if the gay vote counts in America.

I would vote for Sarah Palin. She is a great female.
I admire her a lot, she has achieved so much.
I know how difficult it is to get on the cover of Vogue.
Sara Palin takes a great photo.
This is the photo of Sarah Palin I love best.

If I was not a totally convinced and born again gay man, I can imagine spending hours and hours sat in my flat, writing letters to Sarah Palin, explaining my secret love for her.
Padraig Caughey

Mama Mia

Went to see Mama mia for the 9th time tonight.
I will soon be known as the dancing queen of Belfast.
Padraig Caughey

halloween party

I am getting very stressy, I can not decide what to dress up as for this years gay halloween party.
ideas so far.

one of the village people, I like the builder best.
elton john


I do like the idea of going as a muscle man. I can rent one of those foam muscle bodysuits. but I am scared I will just look a even fatter short man.

Padraig Caughey

feeling all queer

I woke up feeling all queer this morning.

Still dreaming about Bjorn

Bjorn Ulvaeus of Abba


When I was a teenager I dreamed about Bjorn every night, but "Society" made me feel ashamed of my love for Bjorn, made me keep my one true love a secret. I could not keep it secret, and so I was sent packing to a monastery to try and forget about Bjorn.
Still dreaming about Bjorn
Padraig Caughey

Surviving with tough men when you are short and fat

I am so tired of having to portray myself as a man who is capable of being physically tough.
At just over five feet and five inches in my heels, and being much, much more, than just a little overweight, I know the truth is, that I was never built for physical violence of any kind with anyone.
Why do I do pretend?
Because I was bullied at school and at work for being short and fat.
It is not my fault. Why are so many men, tough and rough.
Padraig Caughey

What a Gay day

I woke early and had a walk around the docks. No sailors to be seen anywhere. damn damn.
What a gay day
Padraig Caughey

Gay pubs and clubs in Belfast

From Gay Belfast

Bar's and Club's

Kremlin: Belfast's best gay owned dance club for men and women. The Kremlin is located at Donegall Street. Tel: (028)90319061. To visit their very slow website: www.kremlin-belfast.com.

Union Street Bar: Belfast's trendy award winning gay bar. Union Street, has a excellent late club night on Saturday - Event Horizon. Check it out today. Web Link: www.unionstreetpub.com

Dubarrys is Belfast's newest gay bar. Set over three floors, Dubarrys offers a great alternative to the banging house tunes and teenybopping antics of some other gay establishments. A welcome addition to Belfast's booming gay scene. Gresham St T: 9032 3590 W: www.dubarrysbar.co.uk

Forbidden Fruit presents: FRESH FRUIT! Every Monday at The Potthouse with Hostess Titty Von Tramp 2 DJs, 2 Rooms, 2 Atmospheres Soap Bar: 10pm - Midnight Commercial Pop & Old Skool Anthems Sugar Room: 11.30pm - late Funky Vocal House. link: www.potthouse.co.uk

SLAG @ The Limelight: is a club for the Straights, Lesbians & Gays with a friendly environment, playing big tunes thatll pull you up to throw a few shapes on the dance floor.Featuring an upbeat mix of indie,funk,disco & all the classic party tunes you can handle. An Alternative to the Norm... Doors 10pm, Adm £3. Website: www.the-limelight.co.uk

The Nest: Gay owned pub that attracts an older mixed crowd. The bar is located at Skipper Street. Serves food. Used to be called 'The Custom House'. Tel: (028)90245558.

MYNT (formerly "The Parliament" Belfast's 1st gay bar) Belfast's best gay dance club and bar for men and women. MYNT is located in Dunbar Street, Cathedral Quarter. Food is served at lunchtime all week. t: 028 90 234520. Web Link: www.myntbelfast.com

HOmono is Belfast's latest city centre bar has rebranded Monday nights and brought in respected Irish DJ Micky Modelle - who recently went UK Top Ten with club hit Dancing in the Dark. His 'funky ass shakin' music' will get the gay crowd & chums grooving into early Tuesday... and a Happy Hour will run from 10pm to midnight. Admission free before 10pm, #3 after. Club closes at 03:00. W: www.monobelfast.com

LICK! WOMEN - A place for women to come, relax and have a boogie in any of our three nights of every month in both Belfast and Derry. Men are welcome as guests. Always check the website for updates on acts etc. www.lick-women.com or join their bebo site at www.lick-women.bebo.com. 1st FRIDAY of month - BELFAST - The Pavilion Middle Bar, Ormeau Rd, Belfast - Alternative, pop, chart and dance - 9.30pm, #5. 3rd FRIDAY of month - BELFAST - Dubarrys Seduction Lounge, Top Floor, Gresham St, Belfast - Sexy beats and dance- 9.30pm, #5. LAST FRIDAY of month - DERRY - The Linenhall Upper Bar, Market St, Derry - Alternative, pop, chart and dance- 9.30pm, #5. Always check website for details.

Sirens @Ten Square: A friendly and welcoming women-only crowd gets together on an ad hoc basis at the super-chic Ten Square Hotel. Email Sirens (sirensbelfast@yahoo.co.uk) or contact the hotel for nights and times (T: 9024 1001) . The perfect laid-back intro to the local lesbian scene. Open third Friday in every month. 21:30-01:00.

Queens Bar: Gay friendly city centre pub located at Queens Arcade. Tel: (028)90321347.

The John Hewitt: Gay friendly Cathedral Quarter pub located at Donegall Street Tel: (028) 90233768. Web Link: www.thejohnhewitt.com

The Apartment: Gay friendly bar located at Donegall Sq West. Tel: (028) 90509777. Web Link: www.apartmentbelfast.com

The Spaniard: Gay friendly Cathedral Quarter bar and "Tapas Bar" at Skipper Street. The "Belfast/Basque" style bar is worth a visit for its tapas and cocktails. Great fun.

Padraig Caughey proud to be gay

Gay pubs and clubs in Belfast

Gay Belfast

Welcome to Gay Belfast.
My name is Padraig Caughey native gay of Belfast city.
My favorite time of the year is when the Belfast Gay Pride Festival starts.