Meeting Larry and learning to dance

I have met Larry and co and I am now learning to dance.
I am so, so excited.
Padraig Caughey

My encounter with Oscar Wilde

I was feeling so, so, so sorry for myself. I was going through a bout of manic depression. I was drinking heavy and using weed. I did not care about anyone or anything but me.
My encounter with Oscar Wilde was brief, but very, very very life changing.
Padraig Caughey

My encounter with the fairy god mother

Bullied at school, I ended up a manic depressive prone to extreme mood swings.
I was living the bad life, alone in my council flat on the dole, wasting my days in a fantasy world and self love.
Then one day I had a vision, it was my fairy god mother.

She talked to me, Padraig Caughey
, Padraig Caughey, Padraig Caughey, get up you lazy fat little sad git.
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Padraig Caughey - me

Height ~ 5' 4"
Weight ~ 14 stones 7 pounds. yes I know I need to lose 3 or 4 stone.
Hair ~ Thinning bald
Interests ~ Internet
Hobby ~ None really
Lovelife ~ Do not talk about it.
Fitness level ~ Do not talk about it.
Desire ~ Interesting life partner to compensate.

Padraig Caughey

Iris Robinson

Iris robinson comments on gays are part of a very,very,very anti gay campaign.
Padraig Caughey

Photos of Sarah Palin and the gay vote

Wondering if the gay vote counts in America.

I would vote for Sarah Palin. She is a great female.
I admire her a lot, she has achieved so much.
I know how difficult it is to get on the cover of Vogue.
Sara Palin takes a great photo.
This is the photo of Sarah Palin I love best.

If I was not a totally convinced and born again gay man, I can imagine spending hours and hours sat in my flat, writing letters to Sarah Palin, explaining my secret love for her.
Padraig Caughey

Mama Mia

Went to see Mama mia for the 9th time tonight.
I will soon be known as the dancing queen of Belfast.
Padraig Caughey

halloween party

I am getting very stressy, I can not decide what to dress up as for this years gay halloween party.
ideas so far.

one of the village people, I like the builder best.
elton john


I do like the idea of going as a muscle man. I can rent one of those foam muscle bodysuits. but I am scared I will just look a even fatter short man.

Padraig Caughey

feeling all queer

I woke up feeling all queer this morning.

Still dreaming about Bjorn

Bjorn Ulvaeus of Abba


When I was a teenager I dreamed about Bjorn every night, but "Society" made me feel ashamed of my love for Bjorn, made me keep my one true love a secret. I could not keep it secret, and so I was sent packing to a monastery to try and forget about Bjorn.
Still dreaming about Bjorn
Padraig Caughey

Surviving with tough men when you are short and fat

I am so tired of having to portray myself as a man who is capable of being physically tough.
At just over five feet and five inches in my heels, and being much, much more, than just a little overweight, I know the truth is, that I was never built for physical violence of any kind with anyone.
Why do I do pretend?
Because I was bullied at school and at work for being short and fat.
It is not my fault. Why are so many men, tough and rough.
Padraig Caughey